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Questions for couples & questions to ask your partner

Funny questions to ask your partner and deep questions for couples: 40 date night questions plus 24 where you have to guess your partner’s answer in a duel.

Good questions for couples are not the deepest ones. They are the ones you both answer instantly — and then notice you gave two different answers. These come from QuizYou and work either way: read them out and talk, or play a round where you both guess and end up with a score.

40 questions: which of you two?

  1. 1. Who of you wakes up faster in the morning and is ready to go right away?

    Night owl or early bird: does your self-image match reality?

  2. 2. Who of you is the more romantic one in everyday life?

    List your little gestures from the last while for each other.

  3. 3. Who of you gives in first after an argument and apologizes?

    Who makes the first move - and is it easy or hard for that person?

  4. 4. Who of you clearly takes on more of the household chores?

    Quickly list who actually does which routines.

  5. 5. Who of you plans trips together more spontaneously and without much research?

    Spontaneous or fully planned: which travel style won out last time?

  6. 6. Who of you bravely jumps in when a spider shows up in the living room?

    Remember the last creepy-crawly emergency in your home.

  7. 7. Who of you more reliably remembers anniversaries and special occasions?

    Which occasion was forgotten last - and who noticed?

  8. 8. Who of you is the better cook?

    Name your shared favorite dish - and who makes it better.

  9. 9. Who of you wanders through shops for hours on vacation without buying anything?

    Shopping marathon or quick walkthrough - which camp are you in?

  10. 10. Who of you checks their phone first thing in the morning?

    Who scrolls right in bed, who drinks coffee first?

  11. 11. Who of you has the worse memory for things you experienced together?

    Which anecdote does one of you happily forget?

  12. 12. Who of you secretly watches episodes of a shared series ahead?

    Have you ever been caught spoiling?

  13. 13. Who of you complains more often about cold feet in bed?

    Whose side of the bed is colder?

  14. 14. Who of you gets in a bad mood faster during a trip to Ikea?

    Do you have a secret Ikea emergency plan?

  15. 15. Who of you usually decides in the end what gets cooked for dinner?

    Is there a case where that backfired badly?

  16. 16. Who of you finishes the other's water at the restaurant because their own glass is already empty?

    Who gets thirsty faster?

  17. 17. Who of you googles random curiosities in the middle of the night?

    What was the last crazy Google search?

  18. 18. Who of you laughs loudest at their own worst jokes?

    Which joke was really embarrassing last time?

  19. 19. Who of you more often loses their own keys or phone around your shared home?

    What was the weirdest hiding spot so far?

  20. 20. Who of you more often leaves a coffee cup sitting on the table unfinished?

    Is there a favorite forgetful spot?

  21. 21. Who of you more often starts belting out songs in the car?

    What is your absolute car karaoke classic?

  22. 22. Who of you more often says there's no money, but then buys expensive stuff anyway?

    What was the last pointless purchase?

  23. 23. Who of you talks in their sleep or clearly snores louder?

    Have you ever been woken up by it?

  24. 24. Who of you has the more out-there sense of fashion?

    What is the most argument-prone piece of clothing?

  25. 25. Who of you hoards old receipts, tickets, or travel souvenirs?

    Which souvenir once had to be secretly thrown away?

  26. 26. Who of you has the bigger weakness for sweets?

    What was the last secret snack?

  27. 27. Who of you turns off the light earlier in the evening?

    Who is clearly the night owl, who is the early bird?

  28. 28. Who of you is the first to start comparing yourselves to other couples during an argument?

    Which couple is your secret benchmark?

  29. 29. Who of you more often sends memes or reels into your shared chat?

    Whose picks land better with the other?

  30. 30. Who of you decides what to order faster at a restaurant?

    Who takes forever?

  31. 31. Who of you gets impatient fastest in a traffic jam?

    Do you have a ritual against traffic-jam frustration?

  32. 32. Who of you has a secret favorite spot on the sofa?

    What happens when the other one sits in it?

  33. 33. Who of you drinks the first coffee in the morning in total peace?

    What is your secret breakfast ritual?

  34. 34. Who of you is clearly the person who knows the Wi-Fi password?

    Who keeps asking the other for passwords?

  35. 35. Who of you is the first to say something during an argument that they later regret?

    What helps you find your way back to each other afterward?

  36. 36. Who of you is more romantic when it comes to little surprises?

    Which surprise really landed well last time?

  37. 37. Who of you more often initiates a cozy evening on the couch?

    Who falls asleep faster doing it?

  38. 38. Who of you still flirts shamelessly with the other even after years?

    What has become your typical flirt line?

  39. 39. Who of you keeps a better overview of your shared finances?

    Who would take care of the tax return?

  40. 40. Who of you spends money more impulsively, without thinking long?

    What was the last impulse buy?

24 questions where you guess the other person

Each of you answers about yourself first — then you guess what the other one picked.

  1. 1. What are you most afraid of?

    • Heights
    • Tight spaces
    • Deep water
    • The dark

  2. 2. What do you order most when you eat out together?

    • Pizza or pasta
    • Sushi
    • Burger and fries
    • Something off the grill

  3. 3. How do you keep track of your spending?

    • Budget app or notebook
    • Checking the account
    • A rough sense of it
    • Not at all

  4. 4. What music do you listen to most?

    • Pop and charts
    • Rock
    • Hip-hop
    • Classical or jazz

  5. 5. What do you dream about for the next five years?

    • Owning a home
    • A long trip
    • A new career
    • More free time

  6. 6. How many breaks do you take on a work day?

    • Almost none
    • One long break
    • Lots of short ones
    • Always the same time

  7. 7. What do you do if a film gets boring after 20 minutes?

    • Watch it to the end
    • Reach for the phone
    • Stop and switch films
    • Fall asleep

  8. 8. How did you usually get to school as a kid?

    • On foot
    • By bike
    • By bus
    • Driven by a parent

  9. 9. What do you do when you really don't feel like exercising?

    • Push through anyway
    • Put it off to tomorrow
    • A short walk instead
    • Skip it entirely

  10. 10. What's your most obvious quirk day to day?

    • Straightening everything
    • Triple-checking things
    • Labelling everything
    • Constantly tidying up

  11. 11. What do you reach for on the couch at night?

    • Chocolate
    • Crisps
    • Fruit
    • Gummy sweets

  12. 12. How do you prefer to shop?

    • Online from the couch
    • In a physical shop
    • At a market
    • Secondhand

  13. 13. What animal do you like best?

    • Dogs
    • Cats
    • Horses
    • Birds

  14. 14. What's the first thing you do before guests arrive?

    • Tidy the living room
    • Scrub the bathroom
    • Start cooking
    • Air out and light candles

  15. 15. What do you miss most when you're apart?

    • The voice
    • The hugs
    • The conversations
    • The everyday routine

  16. 16. What hobby have you always wanted to try?

    • Learning an instrument
    • Dancing
    • Pottery or painting
    • Climbing

  17. 17. How many pairs of shoes sit in your hallway?

    • Up to three pairs
    • Four to ten pairs
    • Over ten pairs
    • More than twenty pairs

  18. 18. How often are you active in a normal week?

    • Almost every day
    • Two or three times
    • About once
    • Rarely

  19. 19. What makes you instantly nervous?

    • Long queues
    • Time pressure
    • Strangers
    • Loud noises

  20. 20. What's your favourite holiday of the year?

    • New Year's Eve
    • Birthdays
    • Summer festivals
    • The December holidays

  21. 21. What scared you most as a kid?

    • The dark
    • Thunderstorms
    • Big dogs
    • Being alone

  22. 22. What's the first thing you do when you arrive on holiday?

    • Unpack the suitcase
    • Head straight out
    • Grab a bite first
    • Lie down for a bit

  23. 23. Which room is your favourite spot at home?

    • The kitchen
    • The living room sofa
    • The bedroom
    • Balcony or garden

  24. 24. Which shared ritual matters most to you?

    • Sunday breakfast
    • An evening show
    • A goodnight text
    • A walk together

Turn them into a duel

Reading them out always works. It gets better when you answer at the same time and end up with a score: QuizYou mixes these questions with nine other games into a match of about ten minutes. Two devices, one code, no account.

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