Get to know you questions & questions to ask

32 fun and deep questions to ask your partner or a new date, each with four answer options — play them live in the “Do You Know Me?” quiz for two.

The hardest get-to-know-you question is the first one. “What do you do for work” rarely goes anywhere, “what is your greatest fear” is too much to open with. These sit in between — each has four answer options to hold on to. In the game “Do You Know Me?” you answer them about yourself first, then guess the other person’s answers.

32 questions with four answer options

Each of you answers about yourself first — then you guess what the other one picked.

1. What do you do with things you no longer need?
- Sell them
- Give them away
- Donate them
- Keep them
2. How do you feel about perfume or cologne?
- Same scent every day
- Switches it up
- Only for occasions
- No scent at all
3. What do you do when your phone goes missing?
- Has it called
- Calmly searches everywhere
- Instant panic
- Uses phone tracking
4. How fast do you open your mail?
- Right at the mailbox
- That same evening
- After a few days
- A pile for someday
5. How do you react when a planned trip falls through?
- Finds an alternative fast
- Feels disappointed at first
- Happy for the free day
- Reschedules the plan
6. How good are you at laughing at yourself?
- Anytime, gladly
- Pretty much always
- Only in a good mood
- Pretty hard
7. What do you eat on a totally normal morning?
- Nothing, just coffee
- Toast or a bagel
- Muesli or yogurt
- Something hot
8. How do you handle mail and paperwork?
- Sorted right away
- Piled on the table
- Filed every few months
- Left unopened
9. How often would you like to eat out?
- Several times a week
- Once a week
- Once a month
- Only for special occasions
10. Which superstition do you secretly believe?
- Black cats
- Friday the 13th
- Knocking on wood
- Carrying a lucky charm
11. Which sound from nature calms you down?
- Ocean waves
- Rain on the roof
- Wind in the trees
- Birds in the morning
12. What do you pack first when moving house?
- Books
- Kitchen stuff
- Clothes
- Tech and cables
13. What are you most likely to read on a trip away?
- A thick novel
- Light, easy reading
- Magazines
- Nothing at all
14. What annoys you most about grocery shopping?
- Long lines
- Crowded aisles
- Rearranged shelves
- Unwanted sales help
15. How often do you get a haircut?
- Every four weeks
- Every few months
- Once or twice a year
- Cuts it themselves
16. How tidy is your closet?
- Color-coded
- Neatly folded
- Everything crammed in
- Half on the chair
17. Which shared moment was the best for you?
- The first trip
- A quiet evening
- A big celebration
- Moving in together
18. How do you signal in texts that something's a joke?
- Lots of smileys
- Lots of ha-has
- A meme
- Not at all, it's obvious
19. How do you stay in touch with people who live far away?
- Regular video calls
- Messages here and there
- A visit once a year
- Cards and letters
20. How full are your pantry shelves?
- Almost empty
- Stocked for a few days
- Stocked for two weeks
- Like a small shop
21. Which situation makes you want to flee right away?
- Big crowds
- Small talk with strangers
- A long family gathering
- A packed shopping mall
22. What happens to your spare change and coupons?
- Spent right away
- A jar at home
- Vanishes into pockets
- Given away
23. How often do you buy a takeaway coffee?
- Almost every day
- A few times a month
- Only on trips
- Never, too pricey
24. What does your bathroom cabinet look like?
- Just the essentials
- Neatly organized
- Packed to the brim
- Mostly expired stuff

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Reading them out always works. It gets better when you answer at the same time and end up with a score: QuizYou mixes these questions with nine other games into a match of about ten minutes. Two devices, one code, no account.

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